I understand that. Each church has their own interpretation of the same bible, and even when you cut the middleman out (the church) you are still faced with the dilemnas of being one on one with the bible deciding case by case whether you agree or disagree.

For me it's been an 'easier said then done' case in terms of finding a church that reflects my beliefs and needs. Admittedly, it's easy to stay put in a safe place, a place with friends, and a place that still has redeeming qualities despite some views. I've gotten a lot out of the sermons regardless of their background on women or gays or science. They have a lot of good things to teach, but it's when that background bleeds through you need to be careful.

I'm totally glad this has been a mature conversation thus far. I've seen so many out of hand religion-oriented comments going back and forth online where the real message gets lost and it turns into belittlement. That hasn't happened here.

If anyone has any contructive recommendations for church alternatives in the King County area, I'd be grateful.